move smart_list into sub-package/multiple files

See https://github.com/earwig/mwparserfromhell/issues/226

Also added tests for step != 1

Step one of refactoring - making SmartList into its own
package, with each class having its own file.  No code
changes were made.

Note that SmartList and ListProxy import each other,
so had to import SmartList as a full package name
rather than use from ... import ... construct.

ignore InteliJ IDEA files

add missing public items to __all__

Added a few more public classes, and sorted the __all__ value.
The Attribute and Parameter classes are not included as they can
be imported from the `mwparserfromhell.nodes.extras` without
linter complaining.  They could be added to this __all__ too.

fix example: wrap dict.values in list()

In Python 3, `dict.values` returns a dict_values object, which does not support indexing.

Drop support for EOL Python 2.6, 3.2 and 3.3

Add <wbr> to definitions.py

Added to MediaWiki in ff74113bea (T54468).